"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How Important Is Having Good Teeth?

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Smartone84

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well I think any1 with straight up yellow teeth should be ashamed of themselves for coming out anywhere, as that can easily be taken care of by bleeching/cleaning
 

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I just turned 20 and have invested in braces because we could not afford them when i was younger. When people ask me why i got them.. i tell them i couldnt afford them early and finally saved enough. People always try to bring me down because i have them, but i remain really happy and confident because I always wanted them. A part of me is more confident already. I have around a year and a half left with them, possibly longer, i dont mind though. Because i am in the process of improving.
 

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Zaraza said:
I just turned 20 and have invested in braces because we could not afford them when i was younger. When people ask me why i got them.. i tell them i couldnt afford them early and finally saved enough. People always try to bring me down because i have them, but i remain really happy and confident because I always wanted them. A part of me is more confident already. I have around a year and a half left with them, possibly longer, i dont mind though. Because i am in the process of improving.
Definitly agree with you. I am getting braces in about a month and a half and people ask me, why are you getting braces. They dont understand that we want to improve and have a healthy smile. Once the braces come off, im sure you will compliments. I dont care what ANYONE says, a perfect white smile will increase your success with women. BTW, what type of braces do you have? the traditional? Im due to get the "Damon 3" braces.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I actually saw a girl in the street I stopped to talk to her ...with yellow teeth, she was cute but teeth were severly stained. Im a dentist I walk in scrubs all the time (peacocking my identity) and I didnt have the balls to tell her I could help her or anything. She simply after a brief convo walked away, no number close or anything.

But I was a bit grossed out. I imagined her hairy pvssy.
 

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We're talking about two different things.

Yellow teeth...women probably imagine kissing you with your yellow teeth...probably not a turn on. Yeah, they want perfection, and white teeth are probably easier than....say, summer teeth. (some are here, some are there).

Stop smoking. Stop doing chew. Get whiter teeth and smile. It *is* attractive.

If your teeth are crooked or the bite is out of alignment...it can speak to being healthy...again, attractiveness. Wanna fix it? Do so. You'll just feel better about yourself and eliminate any issues you have in that regard. Physical health is top to bottom including oral hygiene....take care of everything, not just your physique.

However, confidence and self assuredness will trump the above. For the most part. Your mileage may vary.
 

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Anyone can buy a hollywood smile, for god sakes go do it!!

I had braces for 6 years due to a severe overjet and spacing. If I never has this done, I wouldn't be a 7, but a 4 on the looks scale. Nice teeth and a healthy dentofacial relationship is paramount.
 

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devils3777 said:
Anyone can buy a hollywood smile, for god sakes go do it!!

I had braces for 6 years due to a severe overjet and spacing. If I never has this done, I wouldn't be a 7, but a 4 on the looks scale. Nice teeth and a healthy dentofacial relationship is paramount.
QFT, I feel the same way and im not full of myself but i consider myself an 8, with the perfect smile, id be a 9 but would feel like a 10.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I ask about a whitening and they told me
it was something like $260 maybe $360
A rootcanal cost $1800 - $2000 US Dollars.
And that is one tooth. So what if you don't have the cash?
Then guess what... you get it pulled. Not everyone here has
insurance that will cover the work they need done.

So does that mean you'll never have a hot girlfriend.
NO! I used to hang out with this guy that had bad theeth
and he always had a girlfriend. Some hot some average.
He was funny, outgoing, played guitar, and was CONFIDENT!

Sure it's a turn off having decayed theeth but a little stained
isn't such a big deal. Understand women watch alot of tv
and so they are after what they see on the tube
just like many of us here.

So anyways if you don't have the best smile in the world don't
worry. If you got real game you'll still get fine chicks.

Just a little rant there.:D
 
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