She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Definitly agree with you. I am getting braces in about a month and a half and people ask me, why are you getting braces. They dont understand that we want to improve and have a healthy smile. Once the braces come off, im sure you will compliments. I dont care what ANYONE says, a perfect white smile will increase your success with women. BTW, what type of braces do you have? the traditional? Im due to get the "Damon 3" braces.Zaraza said:I just turned 20 and have invested in braces because we could not afford them when i was younger. When people ask me why i got them.. i tell them i couldnt afford them early and finally saved enough. People always try to bring me down because i have them, but i remain really happy and confident because I always wanted them. A part of me is more confident already. I have around a year and a half left with them, possibly longer, i dont mind though. Because i am in the process of improving.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
QFT, I feel the same way and im not full of myself but i consider myself an 8, with the perfect smile, id be a 9 but would feel like a 10.devils3777 said:Anyone can buy a hollywood smile, for god sakes go do it!!
I had braces for 6 years due to a severe overjet and spacing. If I never has this done, I wouldn't be a 7, but a 4 on the looks scale. Nice teeth and a healthy dentofacial relationship is paramount.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
all i gotta say is movie = fakeSandow said:All i gotta say is: Austin Powers.