Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Definitly agree with you. I am getting braces in about a month and a half and people ask me, why are you getting braces. They dont understand that we want to improve and have a healthy smile. Once the braces come off, im sure you will compliments. I dont care what ANYONE says, a perfect white smile will increase your success with women. BTW, what type of braces do you have? the traditional? Im due to get the "Damon 3" braces.Zaraza said:I just turned 20 and have invested in braces because we could not afford them when i was younger. When people ask me why i got them.. i tell them i couldnt afford them early and finally saved enough. People always try to bring me down because i have them, but i remain really happy and confident because I always wanted them. A part of me is more confident already. I have around a year and a half left with them, possibly longer, i dont mind though. Because i am in the process of improving.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
QFT, I feel the same way and im not full of myself but i consider myself an 8, with the perfect smile, id be a 9 but would feel like a 10.devils3777 said:Anyone can buy a hollywood smile, for god sakes go do it!!
I had braces for 6 years due to a severe overjet and spacing. If I never has this done, I wouldn't be a 7, but a 4 on the looks scale. Nice teeth and a healthy dentofacial relationship is paramount.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
all i gotta say is movie = fakeSandow said:All i gotta say is: Austin Powers.