"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How Important Is Having Good Teeth?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Smartone84

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well I think any1 with straight up yellow teeth should be ashamed of themselves for coming out anywhere, as that can easily be taken care of by bleeching/cleaning
 

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I just turned 20 and have invested in braces because we could not afford them when i was younger. When people ask me why i got them.. i tell them i couldnt afford them early and finally saved enough. People always try to bring me down because i have them, but i remain really happy and confident because I always wanted them. A part of me is more confident already. I have around a year and a half left with them, possibly longer, i dont mind though. Because i am in the process of improving.
 

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Zaraza said:
I just turned 20 and have invested in braces because we could not afford them when i was younger. When people ask me why i got them.. i tell them i couldnt afford them early and finally saved enough. People always try to bring me down because i have them, but i remain really happy and confident because I always wanted them. A part of me is more confident already. I have around a year and a half left with them, possibly longer, i dont mind though. Because i am in the process of improving.
Definitly agree with you. I am getting braces in about a month and a half and people ask me, why are you getting braces. They dont understand that we want to improve and have a healthy smile. Once the braces come off, im sure you will compliments. I dont care what ANYONE says, a perfect white smile will increase your success with women. BTW, what type of braces do you have? the traditional? Im due to get the "Damon 3" braces.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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broken dreams

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I actually saw a girl in the street I stopped to talk to her ...with yellow teeth, she was cute but teeth were severly stained. Im a dentist I walk in scrubs all the time (peacocking my identity) and I didnt have the balls to tell her I could help her or anything. She simply after a brief convo walked away, no number close or anything.

But I was a bit grossed out. I imagined her hairy pvssy.
 

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We're talking about two different things.

Yellow teeth...women probably imagine kissing you with your yellow teeth...probably not a turn on. Yeah, they want perfection, and white teeth are probably easier than....say, summer teeth. (some are here, some are there).

Stop smoking. Stop doing chew. Get whiter teeth and smile. It *is* attractive.

If your teeth are crooked or the bite is out of alignment...it can speak to being healthy...again, attractiveness. Wanna fix it? Do so. You'll just feel better about yourself and eliminate any issues you have in that regard. Physical health is top to bottom including oral hygiene....take care of everything, not just your physique.

However, confidence and self assuredness will trump the above. For the most part. Your mileage may vary.
 

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Anyone can buy a hollywood smile, for god sakes go do it!!

I had braces for 6 years due to a severe overjet and spacing. If I never has this done, I wouldn't be a 7, but a 4 on the looks scale. Nice teeth and a healthy dentofacial relationship is paramount.
 

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devils3777 said:
Anyone can buy a hollywood smile, for god sakes go do it!!

I had braces for 6 years due to a severe overjet and spacing. If I never has this done, I wouldn't be a 7, but a 4 on the looks scale. Nice teeth and a healthy dentofacial relationship is paramount.
QFT, I feel the same way and im not full of myself but i consider myself an 8, with the perfect smile, id be a 9 but would feel like a 10.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I ask about a whitening and they told me
it was something like $260 maybe $360
A rootcanal cost $1800 - $2000 US Dollars.
And that is one tooth. So what if you don't have the cash?
Then guess what... you get it pulled. Not everyone here has
insurance that will cover the work they need done.

So does that mean you'll never have a hot girlfriend.
NO! I used to hang out with this guy that had bad theeth
and he always had a girlfriend. Some hot some average.
He was funny, outgoing, played guitar, and was CONFIDENT!

Sure it's a turn off having decayed theeth but a little stained
isn't such a big deal. Understand women watch alot of tv
and so they are after what they see on the tube
just like many of us here.

So anyways if you don't have the best smile in the world don't
worry. If you got real game you'll still get fine chicks.

Just a little rant there.:D
 
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