You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
be careful zek, that line may work on all the twisted 20 something year olds these days.Has someone been imitating my friend Spock?
"Go with the Pokemon man, my sweet. He is a nice guy, you will be very happy together. He will appreciate you, he has never had a woman as good looking as you. I cannot help that all the ladies love me. I am a bad man, I will only break your heart".
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Of course it will work. It worked in Mystery's day, it will work now. Young girls are notoriously stupid.
Yep those type of c0ck blocks work like a charm on the young and dumb females.Of course it will work. It worked in Mystery's day, it will work now. Young girls are notoriously stupid.
The "problem" is that she is in my social circle, not some random girl, that's I have to do everything in slow motion.
At one point in the interaction I told her something I read on The Rational Male. My intention was trying to convey that I knew her, so I "know" that she "hates weak man, and that's her curse". It's like a truism, girls love alphas, hate betas.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Now that it's been awhile, and after this girl told me, this world champion was trying to use the "beta orbiter destroyer". I mean, she told me that while they were talking this guy told her "Is that guy your boyfriend?" and she told her "No, he's not", He didn't go as far as to using the whole gambit: "well, is time for him to know that, 'm gonna tell him", but he told her that he didn't want any trouble.
Maybe it was for the environment, maybe my posture was better than my words, but it actually worked that night.
Amazing.
She either wants to fvck you or she doesn't. Being careful has no bearing on whether that happens or not,
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.