That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
be careful zek, that line may work on all the twisted 20 something year olds these days.Has someone been imitating my friend Spock?
"Go with the Pokemon man, my sweet. He is a nice guy, you will be very happy together. He will appreciate you, he has never had a woman as good looking as you. I cannot help that all the ladies love me. I am a bad man, I will only break your heart".
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Of course it will work. It worked in Mystery's day, it will work now. Young girls are notoriously stupid.
Yep those type of c0ck blocks work like a charm on the young and dumb females.Of course it will work. It worked in Mystery's day, it will work now. Young girls are notoriously stupid.
The "problem" is that she is in my social circle, not some random girl, that's I have to do everything in slow motion.
At one point in the interaction I told her something I read on The Rational Male. My intention was trying to convey that I knew her, so I "know" that she "hates weak man, and that's her curse". It's like a truism, girls love alphas, hate betas.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Now that it's been awhile, and after this girl told me, this world champion was trying to use the "beta orbiter destroyer". I mean, she told me that while they were talking this guy told her "Is that guy your boyfriend?" and she told her "No, he's not", He didn't go as far as to using the whole gambit: "well, is time for him to know that, 'm gonna tell him", but he told her that he didn't want any trouble.
Maybe it was for the environment, maybe my posture was better than my words, but it actually worked that night.
Amazing.
She either wants to fvck you or she doesn't. Being careful has no bearing on whether that happens or not,
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.