That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Snowman23 said:http://img137.imageshack.us/img137/707/her.jpg
That's the girl I was in a relationship with for 3 months and ruined it by being controlling and jealous.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yes that is why I am on a site that teaches you how to attract women.chad2k5 said:dude are you gay?
chad2k5 said:dude are you gay?
I think its a valid question for you and the OP. Since you're on here rating guys pics and chit.worship said:Yes that is why I am on a site that teaches you how to attract women.
I was joking about him being a 10, bit sluggish tonight are we?game.r said:I think its a valid question for you and the OP. Since you're on here rating guys pics and chit.
worship said:She's an 8.5.
You're a 10.
ya clearly joking... lol. Its ok man, no worries. Do you.worship said:I was joking about him being a 10, bit sluggish tonight are we?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Really? Cos i'd do him.worship said:I was joking about him being a 10, bit sluggish tonight are we?
Yes, pity you're a retard to boot. If you think she's hot, she's hot, don't you have eyes of your own?Snowman23 said:Here's a pic of me. http://img402.imageshack.us/img402/4682/56686784.jpg
I'm not worried about her.
I got the hair, the flair and the debonair