Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Snowman23 said:http://img137.imageshack.us/img137/707/her.jpg
That's the girl I was in a relationship with for 3 months and ruined it by being controlling and jealous.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Yes that is why I am on a site that teaches you how to attract women.chad2k5 said:dude are you gay?
chad2k5 said:dude are you gay?
I think its a valid question for you and the OP. Since you're on here rating guys pics and chit.worship said:Yes that is why I am on a site that teaches you how to attract women.
I was joking about him being a 10, bit sluggish tonight are we?game.r said:I think its a valid question for you and the OP. Since you're on here rating guys pics and chit.
worship said:She's an 8.5.
You're a 10.
ya clearly joking... lol. Its ok man, no worries. Do you.worship said:I was joking about him being a 10, bit sluggish tonight are we?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Really? Cos i'd do him.worship said:I was joking about him being a 10, bit sluggish tonight are we?
Yes, pity you're a retard to boot. If you think she's hot, she's hot, don't you have eyes of your own?Snowman23 said:Here's a pic of me. http://img402.imageshack.us/img402/4682/56686784.jpg
I'm not worried about her.
I got the hair, the flair and the debonair