You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Snowman23 said:http://img137.imageshack.us/img137/707/her.jpg
That's the girl I was in a relationship with for 3 months and ruined it by being controlling and jealous.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yes that is why I am on a site that teaches you how to attract women.chad2k5 said:dude are you gay?
chad2k5 said:dude are you gay?
I think its a valid question for you and the OP. Since you're on here rating guys pics and chit.worship said:Yes that is why I am on a site that teaches you how to attract women.
I was joking about him being a 10, bit sluggish tonight are we?game.r said:I think its a valid question for you and the OP. Since you're on here rating guys pics and chit.
worship said:She's an 8.5.
You're a 10.
ya clearly joking... lol. Its ok man, no worries. Do you.worship said:I was joking about him being a 10, bit sluggish tonight are we?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Really? Cos i'd do him.worship said:I was joking about him being a 10, bit sluggish tonight are we?
Yes, pity you're a retard to boot. If you think she's hot, she's hot, don't you have eyes of your own?Snowman23 said:Here's a pic of me. http://img402.imageshack.us/img402/4682/56686784.jpg
I'm not worried about her.
I got the hair, the flair and the debonair