That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Snowman23 said:http://img137.imageshack.us/img137/707/her.jpg
That's the girl I was in a relationship with for 3 months and ruined it by being controlling and jealous.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yes that is why I am on a site that teaches you how to attract women.chad2k5 said:dude are you gay?
chad2k5 said:dude are you gay?
I think its a valid question for you and the OP. Since you're on here rating guys pics and chit.worship said:Yes that is why I am on a site that teaches you how to attract women.
I was joking about him being a 10, bit sluggish tonight are we?game.r said:I think its a valid question for you and the OP. Since you're on here rating guys pics and chit.
worship said:She's an 8.5.
You're a 10.
ya clearly joking... lol. Its ok man, no worries. Do you.worship said:I was joking about him being a 10, bit sluggish tonight are we?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Really? Cos i'd do him.worship said:I was joking about him being a 10, bit sluggish tonight are we?
Yes, pity you're a retard to boot. If you think she's hot, she's hot, don't you have eyes of your own?Snowman23 said:Here's a pic of me. http://img402.imageshack.us/img402/4682/56686784.jpg
I'm not worried about her.
I got the hair, the flair and the debonair