"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how has online dating been treating you tha last couple of months?

eli77

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Have you been more selective or have you been just strictly offline
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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CAPSLOCK BANDIT

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I picked up a plate at the park the other day, but ill be damned, im sick and not a little bit either, 2 days ago I was fine, today i filled up a large mcdonalds coffee with phlegm, never had so much mucus come out of my nose, its been a haze.
 

Rainman4707

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Been ok. Have some birds agreeing to meet up. They have kids, so not exactly what im looking for, but hey.

Im a little reluctant to meet up anyway. Covid is getting bad where i live (Newcastle, England)
 

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no matches (well one, but she really didn't seem interested).
They only want the handsome dudes lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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EyeBRollin

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It sucks compared to pre-COVID.

I’m still getting chicks online but I’m working twice as hard for half the tail. There are way more attention seeking whvres on there with no intention of meeting. The only silver lining is that dating is cheaper because I’m not blowing money on happy hours.
 

gladiator4439

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It sucks compared to pre-COVID.

I’m still getting chicks online but I’m working twice as hard for half the tail. There are way more attention seeking whvres on there with no intention of meeting. The only silver lining is that dating is cheaper because I’m not blowing money on happy hours.
Totally agree with this its freakin ridiculous. All they want rn is to see how many guys they can rope in, almost none of them have any intention of meeting up
 
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