"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

how has online dating been treating you tha last couple of months?

E

eli77

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 7, 2013
Messages
2,706
Reaction score
596
Location
Miami fl
Have you been more selective or have you been just strictly offline
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

CAPSLOCK BANDIT

CAPSLOCK BANDIT

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 29, 2020
Messages
2,792
Reaction score
2,125
I picked up a plate at the park the other day, but ill be damned, im sick and not a little bit either, 2 days ago I was fine, today i filled up a large mcdonalds coffee with phlegm, never had so much mucus come out of my nose, its been a haze.
 
Rainman4707

Rainman4707

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 30, 2012
Messages
1,725
Reaction score
597
Been ok. Have some birds agreeing to meet up. They have kids, so not exactly what im looking for, but hey.

Im a little reluctant to meet up anyway. Covid is getting bad where i live (Newcastle, England)
 
A

apotheosis

Banned
Joined
May 2, 2010
Messages
128
Reaction score
69
no matches (well one, but she really didn't seem interested).
They only want the handsome dudes lol
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

E

EyeBRollin

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 18, 2015
Messages
10,536
Reaction score
8,536
Age
37
It sucks compared to pre-COVID.

I’m still getting chicks online but I’m working twice as hard for half the tail. There are way more attention seeking whvres on there with no intention of meeting. The only silver lining is that dating is cheaper because I’m not blowing money on happy hours.
 
G

gladiator4439

New Member
Joined
Oct 8, 2020
Messages
9
Reaction score
2
Location
Spokane
EyeBRollin said:
It sucks compared to pre-COVID.

I’m still getting chicks online but I’m working twice as hard for half the tail. There are way more attention seeking whvres on there with no intention of meeting. The only silver lining is that dating is cheaper because I’m not blowing money on happy hours.
Click to expand...
Totally agree with this its freakin ridiculous. All they want rn is to see how many guys they can rope in, almost none of them have any intention of meeting up
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top