Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Don't do this!!! This is an AFC move!! Her vagina is for a penis and not your mouth!! Isn't the "vagina" "home"?ER!C L!VE said:Are you going down on these girls before trying to bang them? If not, that could be part of your issue. Give them some foreplay before sliding into home.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Ya. I'm talking about resistance before we're both naked and sucking each other's genitalia.ER!C_L!VE said:Are you going down on these girls before trying to bang them? If not, that could be part of your issue. Give them some foreplay before sliding into home.
Pretty much any kind of LMR I find bizarre lol.ready123 said:what kind of bizarre LMR?
LMR = last minute resistancepunchitchewy said:Ya. I'm talking about resistance before we're both naked and sucking each other's genitalia.
Pretty much any kind of LMR I find bizarre lol.
Basically can someone with a lot of experience give me a straight up amount of time you usually take? I mean every chick is different, but let's say the situation is you're isolated with her after 1 or 2 dates and she seems very into you. How much time would you usually from make out to oral?