She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Don't do this!!! This is an AFC move!! Her vagina is for a penis and not your mouth!! Isn't the "vagina" "home"?ER!C L!VE said:Are you going down on these girls before trying to bang them? If not, that could be part of your issue. Give them some foreplay before sliding into home.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Ya. I'm talking about resistance before we're both naked and sucking each other's genitalia.ER!C_L!VE said:Are you going down on these girls before trying to bang them? If not, that could be part of your issue. Give them some foreplay before sliding into home.
Pretty much any kind of LMR I find bizarre lol.ready123 said:what kind of bizarre LMR?
LMR = last minute resistancepunchitchewy said:Ya. I'm talking about resistance before we're both naked and sucking each other's genitalia.
Pretty much any kind of LMR I find bizarre lol.
Basically can someone with a lot of experience give me a straight up amount of time you usually take? I mean every chick is different, but let's say the situation is you're isolated with her after 1 or 2 dates and she seems very into you. How much time would you usually from make out to oral?