You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Don't do this!!! This is an AFC move!! Her vagina is for a penis and not your mouth!! Isn't the "vagina" "home"?ER!C L!VE said:Are you going down on these girls before trying to bang them? If not, that could be part of your issue. Give them some foreplay before sliding into home.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ya. I'm talking about resistance before we're both naked and sucking each other's genitalia.ER!C_L!VE said:Are you going down on these girls before trying to bang them? If not, that could be part of your issue. Give them some foreplay before sliding into home.
Pretty much any kind of LMR I find bizarre lol.ready123 said:what kind of bizarre LMR?
LMR = last minute resistancepunchitchewy said:Ya. I'm talking about resistance before we're both naked and sucking each other's genitalia.
Pretty much any kind of LMR I find bizarre lol.
Basically can someone with a lot of experience give me a straight up amount of time you usually take? I mean every chick is different, but let's say the situation is you're isolated with her after 1 or 2 dates and she seems very into you. How much time would you usually from make out to oral?