That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Don't do this!!! This is an AFC move!! Her vagina is for a penis and not your mouth!! Isn't the "vagina" "home"?ER!C L!VE said:Are you going down on these girls before trying to bang them? If not, that could be part of your issue. Give them some foreplay before sliding into home.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Ya. I'm talking about resistance before we're both naked and sucking each other's genitalia.ER!C_L!VE said:Are you going down on these girls before trying to bang them? If not, that could be part of your issue. Give them some foreplay before sliding into home.
Pretty much any kind of LMR I find bizarre lol.ready123 said:what kind of bizarre LMR?
LMR = last minute resistancepunchitchewy said:Ya. I'm talking about resistance before we're both naked and sucking each other's genitalia.
Pretty much any kind of LMR I find bizarre lol.
Basically can someone with a lot of experience give me a straight up amount of time you usually take? I mean every chick is different, but let's say the situation is you're isolated with her after 1 or 2 dates and she seems very into you. How much time would you usually from make out to oral?