How does it feel knowing you'll never end up with the girl or type of girl you dreamed of since so many in reality aren't what you've dreamed? Have you accepted it and simply don't care anymore? Or are you still searching for your dream girl with your head in the clouds?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How does it feel knowing you'll never end up with the girl you dreamed of?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
LiveFreeX
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I did end up with my dream girl 
Come to asia man, theres lots of them to go around.
Come to asia man, theres lots of them to go around.
irocknike23
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someones having a bad day..
SamTheHobit
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It's either a great girl or nothing.
That's the price I pay.
That's the price I pay.
100 years ago you might have gotten the docile obedient girl of your dreams....but then you would have contracted malaria and you'd be dead
today malaria is easily curable but obedient women are hard to get
you win some
you lose some
the type of girls I dig are the cute ones who look like Felicity...they're usually taken by 19...that just means I have to find a way to make them cheat
today malaria is easily curable but obedient women are hard to get
you win some
you lose some
the type of girls I dig are the cute ones who look like Felicity...they're usually taken by 19...that just means I have to find a way to make them cheat
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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they call it a dream girl cause thats all it will ever be, just a dream
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You have to be the right guy in the right social circle at the right time. Otherwise, forget about it.
So I'm not counting on it. The odds of the planets being in the proper alignment are slim lol.
So I'm not counting on it. The odds of the planets being in the proper alignment are slim lol.
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Believing there's a "dream girl" out there for you is a case of oneitis but in the abstract.
When you do that, some girl will come along and you will fill your head up with false assumptions and dreams and expectations, turn into a beta chump, and repel her eventually.
You gotta screen and test, because that's what they are doing too. You don't meet your "dream girl", she demonstrates to you over time that she's better than the others, though that is usually an illusion too.
When you do that, some girl will come along and you will fill your head up with false assumptions and dreams and expectations, turn into a beta chump, and repel her eventually.
You gotta screen and test, because that's what they are doing too. You don't meet your "dream girl", she demonstrates to you over time that she's better than the others, though that is usually an illusion too.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Maybe most people cant get a dream girl, but I can. Girls drool when I walk into a room. I can have them all and I can seal the deal with a couple words and easily manipulate them because I am a legend. I will have a dozen dream girls while you are still trying to get average girls with low standards. I thrive off of hate and love to see hate in people's eyes. I don't care about what you think, I only care about what I think. I want help but now I don't. People just can't stand to see someone so much better than me. They hate what they can't compete against. Then again when you have it all it is very difficult to compete against.
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There is a lot of danger in getting your "dream girl". It will lead to major onitis and you will turn p*ssy whipped like there's no tomorrow. It will be impossible to think straight because you will believe you have found a rare flower.
There is a lot of danger in believing only ONE woman can make you happy. Don't ever fall into that trap. Spin plates for life.
There is a lot of danger in believing only ONE woman can make you happy. Don't ever fall into that trap. Spin plates for life.
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Atom Smasher
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You got me for a second there, Darth! :crazy:Darth said:
SamTheHobit
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This thread actually got me thinking. It would be nice to have your "dream girl" but besides that..
It would be nice to just have an attractive girlfriend that respects me. Am I really asking for so fvcking much?
It would be nice to just have an attractive girlfriend that respects me. Am I really asking for so fvcking much?
Yes... Most attractive (ie, hot) girls don't have to respect people, so they don't.SamTheHobit said:
I think a dream girl could exist... If by dream you don't mean perfect. It's probably not what you think, or found in the places you are looking. And it can't be based off infatuation / lust. You're not going to find a hot skanky wild girl with a nice girl personality, character, and mentality. Sacrifices have to be made, but most people want hot, sexy, exciting, and sweet + other good qualities. They might view it that way during infatuation, but it's not reality. Lust is blinding, and hot girls know this.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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I'd think it's a dream if I ever got a girl in general lol
A "dream girl" is by definition unattainable as the odds of you finding a woman who has every quality you want and none of the flaws you dislike is next to impossible.floydb25 said:
Instead you need to focus on what qualities you need the most in a woman. Personally I'd rather have a 7 in looks with a dream girl personality than a 10 with the dream girl looks who's rotten to the core.
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it's tough to deal with but we should realize that movies, tv and the media make it look like acquiring one is easier than it actually isBumsniff said: