How does it feel knowing you'll never end up with the girl or type of girl you dreamed of since so many in reality aren't what you've dreamed? Have you accepted it and simply don't care anymore? Or are you still searching for your dream girl with your head in the clouds?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How does it feel knowing you'll never end up with the girl you dreamed of?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
LiveFreeX
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I did end up with my dream girl 
Come to asia man, theres lots of them to go around.
Come to asia man, theres lots of them to go around.
irocknike23
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someones having a bad day..
SamTheHobit
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It's either a great girl or nothing.
That's the price I pay.
That's the price I pay.
100 years ago you might have gotten the docile obedient girl of your dreams....but then you would have contracted malaria and you'd be dead
today malaria is easily curable but obedient women are hard to get
you win some
you lose some
the type of girls I dig are the cute ones who look like Felicity...they're usually taken by 19...that just means I have to find a way to make them cheat
today malaria is easily curable but obedient women are hard to get
you win some
you lose some
the type of girls I dig are the cute ones who look like Felicity...they're usually taken by 19...that just means I have to find a way to make them cheat
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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they call it a dream girl cause thats all it will ever be, just a dream
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You have to be the right guy in the right social circle at the right time. Otherwise, forget about it.
So I'm not counting on it. The odds of the planets being in the proper alignment are slim lol.
So I'm not counting on it. The odds of the planets being in the proper alignment are slim lol.
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Believing there's a "dream girl" out there for you is a case of oneitis but in the abstract.
When you do that, some girl will come along and you will fill your head up with false assumptions and dreams and expectations, turn into a beta chump, and repel her eventually.
You gotta screen and test, because that's what they are doing too. You don't meet your "dream girl", she demonstrates to you over time that she's better than the others, though that is usually an illusion too.
When you do that, some girl will come along and you will fill your head up with false assumptions and dreams and expectations, turn into a beta chump, and repel her eventually.
You gotta screen and test, because that's what they are doing too. You don't meet your "dream girl", she demonstrates to you over time that she's better than the others, though that is usually an illusion too.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Maybe most people cant get a dream girl, but I can. Girls drool when I walk into a room. I can have them all and I can seal the deal with a couple words and easily manipulate them because I am a legend. I will have a dozen dream girls while you are still trying to get average girls with low standards. I thrive off of hate and love to see hate in people's eyes. I don't care about what you think, I only care about what I think. I want help but now I don't. People just can't stand to see someone so much better than me. They hate what they can't compete against. Then again when you have it all it is very difficult to compete against.
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There is a lot of danger in getting your "dream girl". It will lead to major onitis and you will turn p*ssy whipped like there's no tomorrow. It will be impossible to think straight because you will believe you have found a rare flower.
There is a lot of danger in believing only ONE woman can make you happy. Don't ever fall into that trap. Spin plates for life.
There is a lot of danger in believing only ONE woman can make you happy. Don't ever fall into that trap. Spin plates for life.
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Atom Smasher
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You got me for a second there, Darth! :crazy:Darth said:
SamTheHobit
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This thread actually got me thinking. It would be nice to have your "dream girl" but besides that..
It would be nice to just have an attractive girlfriend that respects me. Am I really asking for so fvcking much?
It would be nice to just have an attractive girlfriend that respects me. Am I really asking for so fvcking much?
Yes... Most attractive (ie, hot) girls don't have to respect people, so they don't.SamTheHobit said:
I think a dream girl could exist... If by dream you don't mean perfect. It's probably not what you think, or found in the places you are looking. And it can't be based off infatuation / lust. You're not going to find a hot skanky wild girl with a nice girl personality, character, and mentality. Sacrifices have to be made, but most people want hot, sexy, exciting, and sweet + other good qualities. They might view it that way during infatuation, but it's not reality. Lust is blinding, and hot girls know this.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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I'd think it's a dream if I ever got a girl in general lol
A "dream girl" is by definition unattainable as the odds of you finding a woman who has every quality you want and none of the flaws you dislike is next to impossible.floydb25 said:
Instead you need to focus on what qualities you need the most in a woman. Personally I'd rather have a 7 in looks with a dream girl personality than a 10 with the dream girl looks who's rotten to the core.
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it's tough to deal with but we should realize that movies, tv and the media make it look like acquiring one is easier than it actually isBumsniff said: