"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How does it feel knowing you'll never end up with the girl you dreamed of?

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How does it feel knowing you'll never end up with the girl or type of girl you dreamed of since so many in reality aren't what you've dreamed? Have you accepted it and simply don't care anymore? Or are you still searching for your dream girl with your head in the clouds?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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SamTheHobit

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It's either a great girl or nothing.

That's the price I pay.
 

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100 years ago you might have gotten the docile obedient girl of your dreams....but then you would have contracted malaria and you'd be dead

today malaria is easily curable but obedient women are hard to get

you win some

you lose some :)

the type of girls I dig are the cute ones who look like Felicity...they're usually taken by 19...that just means I have to find a way to make them cheat :up:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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foreverAFC

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they call it a dream girl cause thats all it will ever be, just a dream
 

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I've been dating my dream girl for over a year. There have been a dozen others before her. Between them its lonely but if you keep improving new girls always show up eventually.
 

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I don't have dream girls anymore. It's unrealistic, I have ones I like, and ones I don't. Plain and simple.
 

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Believing there's a "dream girl" out there for you is a case of oneitis but in the abstract.

When you do that, some girl will come along and you will fill your head up with false assumptions and dreams and expectations, turn into a beta chump, and repel her eventually.

You gotta screen and test, because that's what they are doing too. You don't meet your "dream girl", she demonstrates to you over time that she's better than the others, though that is usually an illusion too.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Maybe most people cant get a dream girl, but I can. Girls drool when I walk into a room. I can have them all and I can seal the deal with a couple words and easily manipulate them because I am a legend. I will have a dozen dream girls while you are still trying to get average girls with low standards. I thrive off of hate and love to see hate in people's eyes. I don't care about what you think, I only care about what I think. I want help but now I don't. People just can't stand to see someone so much better than me. They hate what they can't compete against. Then again when you have it all it is very difficult to compete against.

-DarthRonaldo
 

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There is a lot of danger in getting your "dream girl". It will lead to major onitis and you will turn p*ssy whipped like there's no tomorrow. It will be impossible to think straight because you will believe you have found a rare flower.

There is a lot of danger in believing only ONE woman can make you happy. Don't ever fall into that trap. Spin plates for life. :up:
 
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Darth said:
Maybe most people cant get a dream girl, but I can. Girls drool when I walk into a room. I can have them all and I can seal the deal with a couple words and easily manipulate them because I am a legend. I will have a dozen dream girls while you are still trying to get average girls with low standards. I thrive off of hate and love to see hate in people's eyes. I don't care about what you think, I only care about what I think. I want help but now I don't. People just can't stand to see someone so much better than me. They hate what they can't compete against. Then again when you have it all it is very difficult to compete against.

-DarthRonaldo
You got me for a second there, Darth! :crazy:
 

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This thread actually got me thinking. It would be nice to have your "dream girl" but besides that..

It would be nice to just have an attractive girlfriend that respects me. Am I really asking for so fvcking much?
 

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SamTheHobit said:
This thread actually got me thinking. It would be nice to have your "dream girl" but besides that..

It would be nice to just have an attractive girlfriend that respects me. Am I really asking for so fvcking much?
Yes... Most attractive (ie, hot) girls don't have to respect people, so they don't.

I think a dream girl could exist... If by dream you don't mean perfect. It's probably not what you think, or found in the places you are looking. And it can't be based off infatuation / lust. You're not going to find a hot skanky wild girl with a nice girl personality, character, and mentality. Sacrifices have to be made, but most people want hot, sexy, exciting, and sweet + other good qualities. They might view it that way during infatuation, but it's not reality. Lust is blinding, and hot girls know this.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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floydb25 said:
Yes... Most attractive (ie, hot) girls don't have to respect people, so they don't.

I think a dream girl could exist... If by dream you don't mean perfect. It's probably not what you think, or found in the places you are looking. And it can't be based off infatuation / lust. You're not going to find a hot skanky wild girl with a nice girl personality, character, and mentality. Sacrifices have to be made, but most people want hot, sexy, exciting, and sweet + other good qualities. They might view it that way during infatuation, but it's not reality. Lust is blinding, and hot girls know this.
A "dream girl" is by definition unattainable as the odds of you finding a woman who has every quality you want and none of the flaws you dislike is next to impossible.

Instead you need to focus on what qualities you need the most in a woman. Personally I'd rather have a 7 in looks with a dream girl personality than a 10 with the dream girl looks who's rotten to the core.
 

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Bumsniff said:
How does it feel knowing you'll never end up with the girl or type of girl you dreamed of since so many in reality aren't what you've dreamed? Have you accepted it and simply don't care anymore? Or are you still searching for your dream girl with your head in the clouds?
it's tough to deal with but we should realize that movies, tv and the media make it look like acquiring one is easier than it actually is
 
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