Dante420
Master Don Juan
How does a true Don Juan go for some oral sex? Giving and receiving. I'd imagine you wouldn't give it out easily right? So how is the true way to get it?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That's why your not a dj. You treat a typical 10 like she's a typical 4 ..Dante420 said:Well would you expect a typical 10 to just throw herself at you and easily give you head?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I don't think your hearing me right. So I'll rephrasecola said:That's why your not a dj. You treat a typical 10 like she's a typical 4 ..
There's no difference. Stop putting women on a pedastool. Your whole mindset is wrong.
lolmagickarl said:I seldom go down on girls. It happens, I mean -- it's been done before, but generally I don't. When I do, it's never as a trade for oral. I would honestly rather have *****.
When I do get head, either the girl does it for me on her own initiative or I just ask for it.
It works like this:
"Lemme get some head"
Try it out sometime. You would be surprised what girls will do for you when you ask.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.