Dante420
Master Don Juan
How does a true Don Juan go for some oral sex? Giving and receiving. I'd imagine you wouldn't give it out easily right? So how is the true way to get it?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
That's why your not a dj. You treat a typical 10 like she's a typical 4 ..Dante420 said:Well would you expect a typical 10 to just throw herself at you and easily give you head?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I don't think your hearing me right. So I'll rephrasecola said:That's why your not a dj. You treat a typical 10 like she's a typical 4 ..
There's no difference. Stop putting women on a pedastool. Your whole mindset is wrong.
lolmagickarl said:I seldom go down on girls. It happens, I mean -- it's been done before, but generally I don't. When I do, it's never as a trade for oral. I would honestly rather have *****.
When I do get head, either the girl does it for me on her own initiative or I just ask for it.
It works like this:
"Lemme get some head"
Try it out sometime. You would be surprised what girls will do for you when you ask.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.