"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How Does a True Don Juan Go for Some Oral Sex?

Dante420

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How does a true Don Juan go for some oral sex? Giving and receiving. I'd imagine you wouldn't give it out easily right? So how is the true way to get it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kal0051

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why wouldn't you give it out easily. I've found the best way to get head is to go down on the girl first.
 

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Reminds me of a nursery rhyme they used to read to me:

Should the lady find you cool and hot,
She'll give you a *******, relationship or not


jk
 

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Dante420 said:
Well would you expect a typical 10 to just throw herself at you and easily give you head?
That's why your not a dj. You treat a typical 10 like she's a typical 4 ..
There's no difference. Stop putting women on a pedastool. Your whole mindset is wrong.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dante420

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cola said:
That's why your not a dj. You treat a typical 10 like she's a typical 4 ..
There's no difference. Stop putting women on a pedastool. Your whole mindset is wrong.
I don't think your hearing me right. So I'll rephrase

Would you expect any girl who considers herself to have value to just throw herself at you and start sucking your ****?

So why would you just throw yourself at a girl and start eating her out?

That would be putting something on a pedestal
 

magickarl

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I seldom go down on girls. It happens, I mean -- it's been done before, but generally I don't. When I do, it's never as a trade for oral. I would honestly rather have *****.

When I do get head, either the girl does it for me on her own initiative or I just ask for it.

It works like this:

"Lemme get some head"

Try it out sometime. You would be surprised what girls will do for you when you ask.
 

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Yes! I would because she has no more value than I do. Regardless of her looks. But to answer your question.. after a makeout session I just stand in front of her and whip it out. Whatever you do don't verbalize it, that seems childish.

I don't neccissarily agree with everything on this site but one thing I do agree with is that no female has more value than I. Therefore I don't treat a 10 different than I would a 2. You seem to be caught up on looks of females. They all have vaginas and mouths.
 

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magickarl said:
I seldom go down on girls. It happens, I mean -- it's been done before, but generally I don't. When I do, it's never as a trade for oral. I would honestly rather have *****.

When I do get head, either the girl does it for me on her own initiative or I just ask for it.

It works like this:

"Lemme get some head"

Try it out sometime. You would be surprised what girls will do for you when you ask.
lol
 

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lol, pursuing oral sex is simple.

You want to naturally shift your waist closer to her face.

She'll pick up the cue and follow suit.

If that's too subtle of a hint, then simply command "I want you to go down on me".

Don't stress or hesitate with the order. You either find out whether she likes oral sex or not after. Most women do.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Last time when I got some road head from some chick. I just jokingly asked her for one.

me: have you ever given road head
hb: road head?
me: yea, you know bj in the car
hb: hahaha
hb: have you gotten one before
me: haha..., no (lying)
me: wanna be my first (joking way)
hb: naaaa

I just change the subject after that. 20 minute later in the car

hb: you seroiusly never got road head before
me: dont bring it up if you're not gonna do it
hb: hahah, you seroiusly want one?
me: sure
hb: whip it out then

pause for a few second, she didnt see me whipping it out. I slowly moved her hand onto my di*k.

hb: what are you doing
me: haha, quit acting like you never did it before
me: you're half way there
hb: i don't know.....
hb: you sure you can drive?
me: only one way to find out

She was thinking about it, but i just grap her head and moved it toward my co*k. I didnt blow a load, didnt want to get my car dirty. After the bj, I pretend nothing happend

hb: i'm horny
me: me 2
hb: do u have a condom?
me: way ahead of you
hb: hahah, slap my shoulder
 

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^ That was pretty smooth. So when I'm hanging out with a girl I can just ask for head if the situation is right? News to me.
 
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