Dante420
Master Don Juan
How does a true Don Juan go for some oral sex? Giving and receiving. I'd imagine you wouldn't give it out easily right? So how is the true way to get it?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That's why your not a dj. You treat a typical 10 like she's a typical 4 ..Dante420 said:Well would you expect a typical 10 to just throw herself at you and easily give you head?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I don't think your hearing me right. So I'll rephrasecola said:That's why your not a dj. You treat a typical 10 like she's a typical 4 ..
There's no difference. Stop putting women on a pedastool. Your whole mindset is wrong.
lolmagickarl said:I seldom go down on girls. It happens, I mean -- it's been done before, but generally I don't. When I do, it's never as a trade for oral. I would honestly rather have *****.
When I do get head, either the girl does it for me on her own initiative or I just ask for it.
It works like this:
"Lemme get some head"
Try it out sometime. You would be surprised what girls will do for you when you ask.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.