"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How Does a True Don Juan Go for Some Oral Sex?

Dante420

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How does a true Don Juan go for some oral sex? Giving and receiving. I'd imagine you wouldn't give it out easily right? So how is the true way to get it?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Kal0051

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why wouldn't you give it out easily. I've found the best way to get head is to go down on the girl first.
 

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Reminds me of a nursery rhyme they used to read to me:

Should the lady find you cool and hot,
She'll give you a *******, relationship or not


jk
 

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Dante420 said:
Well would you expect a typical 10 to just throw herself at you and easily give you head?
That's why your not a dj. You treat a typical 10 like she's a typical 4 ..
There's no difference. Stop putting women on a pedastool. Your whole mindset is wrong.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dante420

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cola said:
That's why your not a dj. You treat a typical 10 like she's a typical 4 ..
There's no difference. Stop putting women on a pedastool. Your whole mindset is wrong.
I don't think your hearing me right. So I'll rephrase

Would you expect any girl who considers herself to have value to just throw herself at you and start sucking your ****?

So why would you just throw yourself at a girl and start eating her out?

That would be putting something on a pedestal
 

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I seldom go down on girls. It happens, I mean -- it's been done before, but generally I don't. When I do, it's never as a trade for oral. I would honestly rather have *****.

When I do get head, either the girl does it for me on her own initiative or I just ask for it.

It works like this:

"Lemme get some head"

Try it out sometime. You would be surprised what girls will do for you when you ask.
 

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Yes! I would because she has no more value than I do. Regardless of her looks. But to answer your question.. after a makeout session I just stand in front of her and whip it out. Whatever you do don't verbalize it, that seems childish.

I don't neccissarily agree with everything on this site but one thing I do agree with is that no female has more value than I. Therefore I don't treat a 10 different than I would a 2. You seem to be caught up on looks of females. They all have vaginas and mouths.
 

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magickarl said:
I seldom go down on girls. It happens, I mean -- it's been done before, but generally I don't. When I do, it's never as a trade for oral. I would honestly rather have *****.

When I do get head, either the girl does it for me on her own initiative or I just ask for it.

It works like this:

"Lemme get some head"

Try it out sometime. You would be surprised what girls will do for you when you ask.
lol
 

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lol, pursuing oral sex is simple.

You want to naturally shift your waist closer to her face.

She'll pick up the cue and follow suit.

If that's too subtle of a hint, then simply command "I want you to go down on me".

Don't stress or hesitate with the order. You either find out whether she likes oral sex or not after. Most women do.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Last time when I got some road head from some chick. I just jokingly asked her for one.

me: have you ever given road head
hb: road head?
me: yea, you know bj in the car
hb: hahaha
hb: have you gotten one before
me: haha..., no (lying)
me: wanna be my first (joking way)
hb: naaaa

I just change the subject after that. 20 minute later in the car

hb: you seroiusly never got road head before
me: dont bring it up if you're not gonna do it
hb: hahah, you seroiusly want one?
me: sure
hb: whip it out then

pause for a few second, she didnt see me whipping it out. I slowly moved her hand onto my di*k.

hb: what are you doing
me: haha, quit acting like you never did it before
me: you're half way there
hb: i don't know.....
hb: you sure you can drive?
me: only one way to find out

She was thinking about it, but i just grap her head and moved it toward my co*k. I didnt blow a load, didnt want to get my car dirty. After the bj, I pretend nothing happend

hb: i'm horny
me: me 2
hb: do u have a condom?
me: way ahead of you
hb: hahah, slap my shoulder
 

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^ That was pretty smooth. So when I'm hanging out with a girl I can just ask for head if the situation is right? News to me.
 
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