zekko
Master Don Juan
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Wow, am I using this place wrong.SS is not for entertainment purposes.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Wow, am I using this place wrong.SS is not for entertainment purposes.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
One thing about this post is that you seem to be putting this woman on a pedestal. She's not ugly but she certainly isn't past an average dudes 'paygrade'.This is a local forecaster down here I follow on Twitter. A young hottie in a large TV market. How in the world does her fiance get her when he is no Chad or Chad lite at all and isn't even in great shape? I see much better looking guys like this everyday in better shape and all. I mean looks wise she's way beyond his pay grade. So how do guys like this work magic to get high end top of the line HB? Are they using PUA game? Looks like a typical guy you see at the local sports bars drinking beer and watching football. Usually these bubble head young news hotties go for super Chads and even a few cases super Tyrone around here.
Alot of "boyfriends" jobs in the "9 and 10" situation is a "prop". He will get complained about either way. Society convinced them to continue to do their single act forever.One thing about this post is that you seem to be putting this woman on a pedestal. She's not ugly but she certainly isn't past an average dudes 'paygrade'.
Also you're putting down a fellow dude. You don't know if he's red pilled and has alpha game. How do you know she won't start her crap that females do and she won't dump him or vice versa?
Remember : Behind every beautiful woman ( and this chick certainly isn't 'beautiful'. She's average) there's a man that's sick and tired of her crap.
IOW - behind that smile may be a cruddy personality. Stop putting these women on pedestals. A '10' doesn't exist.
They actually look like they match really well...This is a local forecaster down here I follow on Twitter. A young hottie in a large TV market. How in the world does her fiance get her when he is no Chad or Chad lite at all and isn't even in great shape? I see much better looking guys like this everyday in better shape and all. I mean looks wise she's way beyond his pay grade. So how do guys like this work magic to get high end top of the line HB? Are they using PUA game? Looks like a typical guy you see at the local sports bars drinking beer and watching football. Usually these bubble head young news hotties go for super Chads and even a few cases super Tyrone around here.
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You have a good personality.Hey Biggoal,
I'm sure as a guest that you can (and probably are) reading these postings.
Although I don't disagree with the mod's choice here (I also found myself frustrated at offering tips that seemed to be ignored)...
I don't dislike you. In fact, I wish you great success with your home gym work-out and also with future women.
Take care
P.S. - Don't worry about being unable to 'rep' me for this posting. It's not as if you did this for others when you were a member.
Yes, biggoal hung on for so long because he did not have a combative attitude. We cut him a lot of slack for that very reason. But he definitely showed a complete lack of appreciation for some fine advice he was given. The more personal you got with him, the more he would ignore offers to help.Hey Biggoal,
I'm sure as a guest that you can (and probably are) reading these postings.
Although I don't disagree with the mod's choice here (I also found myself frustrated at offering tips that seemed to be ignored)...
I don't dislike you. In fact, I wish you great success with your home gym work-out and also with future women.
Take care
P.S. - Don't worry about being unable to 'rep' me for this posting. It's not as if you did this for others when you were a member.
This is a local forecaster down here I follow on Twitter. A young hottie in a large TV market. How in the world does her fiance get her when he is no Chad or Chad lite at all and isn't even in great shape? I see much better looking guys like this everyday in better shape and all. I mean looks wise she's way beyond his pay grade. So how do guys like this work magic to get high end top of the line HB? Are they using PUA game? Looks like a typical guy you see at the local sports bars drinking beer and watching football. Usually these bubble head young news hotties go for super Chads and even a few cases super Tyrone around here.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Do you look like Adonis?Not attractive at all in my eyes OP. Thick masculine nose and facial features.
I would hope you wouldn't have to be a superstar to get her.
Nope but I'd give her a 6.5 on my rating scale.Do you look like Adonis?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.