zekko
Master Don Juan
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Wow, am I using this place wrong.SS is not for entertainment purposes.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Wow, am I using this place wrong.SS is not for entertainment purposes.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
One thing about this post is that you seem to be putting this woman on a pedestal. She's not ugly but she certainly isn't past an average dudes 'paygrade'.This is a local forecaster down here I follow on Twitter. A young hottie in a large TV market. How in the world does her fiance get her when he is no Chad or Chad lite at all and isn't even in great shape? I see much better looking guys like this everyday in better shape and all. I mean looks wise she's way beyond his pay grade. So how do guys like this work magic to get high end top of the line HB? Are they using PUA game? Looks like a typical guy you see at the local sports bars drinking beer and watching football. Usually these bubble head young news hotties go for super Chads and even a few cases super Tyrone around here.
Alot of "boyfriends" jobs in the "9 and 10" situation is a "prop". He will get complained about either way. Society convinced them to continue to do their single act forever.One thing about this post is that you seem to be putting this woman on a pedestal. She's not ugly but she certainly isn't past an average dudes 'paygrade'.
Also you're putting down a fellow dude. You don't know if he's red pilled and has alpha game. How do you know she won't start her crap that females do and she won't dump him or vice versa?
Remember : Behind every beautiful woman ( and this chick certainly isn't 'beautiful'. She's average) there's a man that's sick and tired of her crap.
IOW - behind that smile may be a cruddy personality. Stop putting these women on pedestals. A '10' doesn't exist.
They actually look like they match really well...This is a local forecaster down here I follow on Twitter. A young hottie in a large TV market. How in the world does her fiance get her when he is no Chad or Chad lite at all and isn't even in great shape? I see much better looking guys like this everyday in better shape and all. I mean looks wise she's way beyond his pay grade. So how do guys like this work magic to get high end top of the line HB? Are they using PUA game? Looks like a typical guy you see at the local sports bars drinking beer and watching football. Usually these bubble head young news hotties go for super Chads and even a few cases super Tyrone around here.
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You have a good personality.Hey Biggoal,
I'm sure as a guest that you can (and probably are) reading these postings.
Although I don't disagree with the mod's choice here (I also found myself frustrated at offering tips that seemed to be ignored)...
I don't dislike you. In fact, I wish you great success with your home gym work-out and also with future women.
Take care
P.S. - Don't worry about being unable to 'rep' me for this posting. It's not as if you did this for others when you were a member.
Yes, biggoal hung on for so long because he did not have a combative attitude. We cut him a lot of slack for that very reason. But he definitely showed a complete lack of appreciation for some fine advice he was given. The more personal you got with him, the more he would ignore offers to help.Hey Biggoal,
I'm sure as a guest that you can (and probably are) reading these postings.
Although I don't disagree with the mod's choice here (I also found myself frustrated at offering tips that seemed to be ignored)...
I don't dislike you. In fact, I wish you great success with your home gym work-out and also with future women.
Take care
P.S. - Don't worry about being unable to 'rep' me for this posting. It's not as if you did this for others when you were a member.
This is a local forecaster down here I follow on Twitter. A young hottie in a large TV market. How in the world does her fiance get her when he is no Chad or Chad lite at all and isn't even in great shape? I see much better looking guys like this everyday in better shape and all. I mean looks wise she's way beyond his pay grade. So how do guys like this work magic to get high end top of the line HB? Are they using PUA game? Looks like a typical guy you see at the local sports bars drinking beer and watching football. Usually these bubble head young news hotties go for super Chads and even a few cases super Tyrone around here.
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Do you look like Adonis?Not attractive at all in my eyes OP. Thick masculine nose and facial features.
I would hope you wouldn't have to be a superstar to get her.
Nope but I'd give her a 6.5 on my rating scale.Do you look like Adonis?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.