Yeah I just got turned down by a girl via e-mail she thinks she's hot sh!t and I'm not sure how to respond...I want to respond in a way to make like I don't give a fck and she's missing out, you know how a true alpha male.. What would be the perfect response? Hell maybe after this response she might even want me lol
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How does a DJ respond to a turn down
- Thread starter tapout632
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Caldus
Senior Don Juan
Good question. Can't wait to hear from some others.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
stalluproar
Senior Don Juan
Move on would be the best, but if you have to or forced:
"That is too bad, you are going to miss out"
"Your loss"
"Now that you've shown me you can't have fun, i'm not interested either, I like someone who is more fun"
"That is too bad, you are going to miss out"
"Your loss"
"Now that you've shown me you can't have fun, i'm not interested either, I like someone who is more fun"
DeathDealer
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why should you give a girl a time of the day when she would do the same for you? ignore and move on.
MindOverMatter
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1.) don't respond
2.) stop looking for girls online, over e-mail, and hook up like normal people do.
2.) stop looking for girls online, over e-mail, and hook up like normal people do.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Mr.Style
Don Juan
"Come on,lower your standards.I did." 
myfriendblu
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Thank you....that sums it up, done deal
I dont think you should respond at all but if you are gonna id do mr.styles respond and would not do stalluproar`s respond that makes you appear that you have been hurt by her knock back, mr style definatly has the right idea.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Ouch.
Don't.
Helllllo? She already turned you down. Do you think she's going to care what you have to say? Even if she reads it before deleting it, you're still someone that she rejected. Get over it.
No response would be the perfect response.
No, she won't.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Yeah, what's the purpsose for responding?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
stalluproar
Senior Don Juan
Wildchild, those responses are all about reframing the reject. If you say them the wrong way, of course it will look like you are hurt.
TillTheEndOfTime
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Either say something very apathetic like "cool" or don't respond at all. Personally I like the "cool" response. One word. Nothing more, nothing less.
I just say this because if she thinks she is hot stuff like you said, she's be expecting you to respond crying like a baby, that you'll change for her and be all the things she wants. Her eyes will light up when she sees the e-mail, she'll open it and get stopped dead in her tracks when she sees that reponse hehe.
I just say this because if she thinks she is hot stuff like you said, she's be expecting you to respond crying like a baby, that you'll change for her and be all the things she wants. Her eyes will light up when she sees the e-mail, she'll open it and get stopped dead in her tracks when she sees that reponse hehe.
Strctlypltnc
Don Juan
Ditto on the dont even bother to respond part.
But, dont over look this internet thing either. I have had some pretty amazing sex using this contraption as a " tool"
There are some pretty cool chics out here that use this thing,some based solely on the fact that in this day and age when so many are single and raising kids on their own, its a great time saver. HELL I'm a single Dad raising a teenager on my own, this thing is amazing .....
Just dont delusion yourself and think your gonna find many women worth a serious real time relationship.....
But, dont over look this internet thing either. I have had some pretty amazing sex using this contraption as a " tool"
There are some pretty cool chics out here that use this thing,some based solely on the fact that in this day and age when so many are single and raising kids on their own, its a great time saver. HELL I'm a single Dad raising a teenager on my own, this thing is amazing .....
Just dont delusion yourself and think your gonna find many women worth a serious real time relationship.....
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.