Yeah I just got turned down by a girl via e-mail she thinks she's hot sh!t and I'm not sure how to respond...I want to respond in a way to make like I don't give a fck and she's missing out, you know how a true alpha male.. What would be the perfect response? Hell maybe after this response she might even want me lol
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How does a DJ respond to a turn down
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Caldus
Senior Don Juan
Good question. Can't wait to hear from some others.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
stalluproar
Senior Don Juan
Move on would be the best, but if you have to or forced:
"That is too bad, you are going to miss out"
"Your loss"
"Now that you've shown me you can't have fun, i'm not interested either, I like someone who is more fun"
"That is too bad, you are going to miss out"
"Your loss"
"Now that you've shown me you can't have fun, i'm not interested either, I like someone who is more fun"
DeathDealer
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why should you give a girl a time of the day when she would do the same for you? ignore and move on.
MindOverMatter
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1.) don't respond
2.) stop looking for girls online, over e-mail, and hook up like normal people do.
2.) stop looking for girls online, over e-mail, and hook up like normal people do.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Mr.Style
Don Juan
"Come on,lower your standards.I did." 
myfriendblu
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Thank you....that sums it up, done deal
I dont think you should respond at all but if you are gonna id do mr.styles respond and would not do stalluproar`s respond that makes you appear that you have been hurt by her knock back, mr style definatly has the right idea.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Ouch.
Don't.
Helllllo? She already turned you down. Do you think she's going to care what you have to say? Even if she reads it before deleting it, you're still someone that she rejected. Get over it.
No response would be the perfect response.
No, she won't.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Yeah, what's the purpsose for responding?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
stalluproar
Senior Don Juan
Wildchild, those responses are all about reframing the reject. If you say them the wrong way, of course it will look like you are hurt.
TillTheEndOfTime
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Either say something very apathetic like "cool" or don't respond at all. Personally I like the "cool" response. One word. Nothing more, nothing less.
I just say this because if she thinks she is hot stuff like you said, she's be expecting you to respond crying like a baby, that you'll change for her and be all the things she wants. Her eyes will light up when she sees the e-mail, she'll open it and get stopped dead in her tracks when she sees that reponse hehe.
I just say this because if she thinks she is hot stuff like you said, she's be expecting you to respond crying like a baby, that you'll change for her and be all the things she wants. Her eyes will light up when she sees the e-mail, she'll open it and get stopped dead in her tracks when she sees that reponse hehe.
Strctlypltnc
Don Juan
Ditto on the dont even bother to respond part.
But, dont over look this internet thing either. I have had some pretty amazing sex using this contraption as a " tool"
There are some pretty cool chics out here that use this thing,some based solely on the fact that in this day and age when so many are single and raising kids on their own, its a great time saver. HELL I'm a single Dad raising a teenager on my own, this thing is amazing .....
Just dont delusion yourself and think your gonna find many women worth a serious real time relationship.....
But, dont over look this internet thing either. I have had some pretty amazing sex using this contraption as a " tool"
There are some pretty cool chics out here that use this thing,some based solely on the fact that in this day and age when so many are single and raising kids on their own, its a great time saver. HELL I'm a single Dad raising a teenager on my own, this thing is amazing .....
Just dont delusion yourself and think your gonna find many women worth a serious real time relationship.....
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.