"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How Does a DJ Deal with Direct Questions?

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I'm just curious how a DJ would deal with direct questions like:

"Do you think I'm beautiful?"

"How do you feel about me?"

"Do you love me?"

Just curious. Thanks.

-Genji
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Genji
I'm just curious how a DJ would deal with direct questions like:

"Do you think I'm beautiful?"

"How do you feel about me?"

"Do you love me?"

Just curious. Thanks.

-Genji
1 . not more than me

2. the same way i feel about me

3 . yup i love ME , my mom sister etc...

Make sure yo u say them with a Funny attitude though
 

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Originally posted by Genji
I'm just curious how a DJ would deal with direct questions like:

"Do you think I'm beautiful?"

"How do you feel about me?"

"Do you love me?"

Just curious. Thanks.

-Genji


1. You wouldn't be my woman if you weren't. Now take off your shirt and let me suck on yo big fat t*tties.

2. Go get me a beer, and I'll tell you.

3. Why must you always ask me this when I'm giving it to you? Now back that ass up....
 

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have you ever thought about honestly answering her questions? Whats wrong if her asking you if you love her, telling her whther you really do or not?
 

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1) Pick something specific to compliment her on, and say nothing more. Something like, "You have beautiful eyes." It lets you slip her a compliment but still leaves her wondering about the "rest of her."

2) "You haven't p!ssed me off yet..."

3) "What do you think?"

BTW I haven't tried any of these...but it's probably what I'd say. :p
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Genji
I'm just curious how a DJ would deal with direct questions like:

"Do you think I'm beautiful?"

"How do you feel about me?"

"Do you love me?"

Just curious. Thanks.

-Genji
- Does it really matter what I think? What do you think?

- How do you think I feel about you?

- Define love...

Notice that none of the answers are direct, this is because when a woman asks questions like this they are usually looking for the answer to something else. Without knowing specifically what they would like to know, the chances of you giving the correct answer is limited.
 
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Originally posted by Genji
I'm just curious how a DJ would deal with direct questions like:

"Do you think I'm beautiful?"

"How do you feel about me?"

"Do you love me?"

Just curious. Thanks.

-Genji
All of these questions reeks of insecurity. To give into her insecurity is to bow down and put the chain around you throat.

If they gotta ask shyt like this then run...and run fast...these types are high maintinance...insecure ego's that need constant stroaking...

Your probably not going to take my advise...so get's some vasiline for ya lips and get to kissing her fat arse. Why? don't tell me..it's because..."she is so beautiful and I've never had one like this...and she is so good to me...and like...she really likes me and like ....I really luv her...."


Oh once you give in....this types interest will freeze up like spit on ice....

So when you start telling her how you feel...then YOU LOSE!!!

keep her funky depressed..med using...men using to stroke her pathetic ego...makeup over applying...anorexia wanting...but not strong enough so resorts to bulemia doing....arse...QUESSING!
 
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