"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
How Does a DJ Deal with Direct Questions?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
InLawsHateMe
Master Don Juan
1. You wouldn't be my woman if you weren't. Now take off your shirt and let me suck on yo big fat t*tties.
2. Go get me a beer, and I'll tell you.
3. Why must you always ask me this when I'm giving it to you? Now back that ass up....
b's nuts
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2) "You haven't p!ssed me off yet..."
3) "What do you think?"
BTW I haven't tried any of these...but it's probably what I'd say.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
- Does it really matter what I think? What do you think?
- How do you think I feel about you?
- Define love...
Notice that none of the answers are direct, this is because when a woman asks questions like this they are usually looking for the answer to something else. Without knowing specifically what they would like to know, the chances of you giving the correct answer is limited.
Player_Supreme
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All of these questions reeks of insecurity. To give into her insecurity is to bow down and put the chain around you throat.
If they gotta ask shyt like this then run...and run fast...these types are high maintinance...insecure ego's that need constant stroaking...
Your probably not going to take my advise...so get's some vasiline for ya lips and get to kissing her fat arse. Why? don't tell me..it's because..."she is so beautiful and I've never had one like this...and she is so good to me...and like...she really likes me and like ....I really luv her...."
Oh once you give in....this types interest will freeze up like spit on ice....
So when you start telling her how you feel...then YOU LOSE!!!
keep her funky depressed..med using...men using to stroke her pathetic ego...makeup over applying...anorexia wanting...but not strong enough so resorts to bulemia doing....arse...QUESSING!