Whenever I first found this site I never thought that I would have this problem. But recently girls have been coming on to me a lot and as you know there are going to be some that you just have to turn down. I am not at all interested in a relationship at this point in my life, but that is all they seem to want, and when I tell these girls this, it makes them try even harder. So my question is how do you turn down girls that you are not interested in without being a total a$$hole?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How do you turn a chick down?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Tricky - I have that problem too, and find how every you dress it up, rejection for a female is an almost impossible pill for her to swallow. In fact, because you rejected her, she wants you even more - Catch 22. They are use to be on the winning side with the upper hand, but if you turn the table, they totally flip.
You get comments like: "what is wrong with me", "nobody/man has ever rejected before" to all sorts of un-repeatable stuff. And they keep coming back to you time and time again to ask you why.
Best way is to say no thank you, then turn and leave before the s hit questions start, and if required leave the bar/club/venue too.
You get comments like: "what is wrong with me", "nobody/man has ever rejected before" to all sorts of un-repeatable stuff. And they keep coming back to you time and time again to ask you why.
Best way is to say no thank you, then turn and leave before the s hit questions start, and if required leave the bar/club/venue too.
DonS said:Why in the hell do you want to turn them down? Once you have told them that you are not interested in a relationship, it is THEIR choice to continue on the terms you laid out to them. These are the chicks that you turn into Fk Buddies dumb dumb. You should have a harem of 3-6 FK Buddies at any given time. These are useful for after bar close fkcing or if you need one to attend a wedding with you. If one starts to act up, drop her and add a new chick you've been keeping in the bullpen awaiting the call up to the majors.
Never reject a chick, simply place her in the position she is best suited for in your life.
i believe it's called standards.
fvk a standard..that man DONS is accurate like a guided missile..
you never kno when you'll need a girl to fill in a spot for you..always keep your options open.
once you've said no LTR..it is upto them to continue wantin you fully knowin there will be nothin more than s3x..which is what you should really be wantin anyway...
you never kno when you'll need a girl to fill in a spot for you..always keep your options open.
once you've said no LTR..it is upto them to continue wantin you fully knowin there will be nothin more than s3x..which is what you should really be wantin anyway...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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1. Be Needy
2. Be A Pu$$ Around Her
3. Reverse Psychology
Only By Mind Screwing Her Will She Leave You Alone Now And Forever
2. Be A Pu$$ Around Her
3. Reverse Psychology
Only By Mind Screwing Her Will She Leave You Alone Now And Forever