Whenever I first found this site I never thought that I would have this problem. But recently girls have been coming on to me a lot and as you know there are going to be some that you just have to turn down. I am not at all interested in a relationship at this point in my life, but that is all they seem to want, and when I tell these girls this, it makes them try even harder. So my question is how do you turn down girls that you are not interested in without being a total a$$hole?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
How do you turn a chick down?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Tricky - I have that problem too, and find how every you dress it up, rejection for a female is an almost impossible pill for her to swallow. In fact, because you rejected her, she wants you even more - Catch 22. They are use to be on the winning side with the upper hand, but if you turn the table, they totally flip.
You get comments like: "what is wrong with me", "nobody/man has ever rejected before" to all sorts of un-repeatable stuff. And they keep coming back to you time and time again to ask you why.
Best way is to say no thank you, then turn and leave before the s hit questions start, and if required leave the bar/club/venue too.
You get comments like: "what is wrong with me", "nobody/man has ever rejected before" to all sorts of un-repeatable stuff. And they keep coming back to you time and time again to ask you why.
Best way is to say no thank you, then turn and leave before the s hit questions start, and if required leave the bar/club/venue too.
DonS said:Why in the hell do you want to turn them down? Once you have told them that you are not interested in a relationship, it is THEIR choice to continue on the terms you laid out to them. These are the chicks that you turn into Fk Buddies dumb dumb. You should have a harem of 3-6 FK Buddies at any given time. These are useful for after bar close fkcing or if you need one to attend a wedding with you. If one starts to act up, drop her and add a new chick you've been keeping in the bullpen awaiting the call up to the majors.
Never reject a chick, simply place her in the position she is best suited for in your life.
i believe it's called standards.
fvk a standard..that man DONS is accurate like a guided missile..
you never kno when you'll need a girl to fill in a spot for you..always keep your options open.
once you've said no LTR..it is upto them to continue wantin you fully knowin there will be nothin more than s3x..which is what you should really be wantin anyway...
you never kno when you'll need a girl to fill in a spot for you..always keep your options open.
once you've said no LTR..it is upto them to continue wantin you fully knowin there will be nothin more than s3x..which is what you should really be wantin anyway...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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1. Be Needy
2. Be A Pu$$ Around Her
3. Reverse Psychology
Only By Mind Screwing Her Will She Leave You Alone Now And Forever
2. Be A Pu$$ Around Her
3. Reverse Psychology
Only By Mind Screwing Her Will She Leave You Alone Now And Forever