Whenever I first found this site I never thought that I would have this problem. But recently girls have been coming on to me a lot and as you know there are going to be some that you just have to turn down. I am not at all interested in a relationship at this point in my life, but that is all they seem to want, and when I tell these girls this, it makes them try even harder. So my question is how do you turn down girls that you are not interested in without being a total a$$hole?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How do you turn a chick down?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Tricky - I have that problem too, and find how every you dress it up, rejection for a female is an almost impossible pill for her to swallow. In fact, because you rejected her, she wants you even more - Catch 22. They are use to be on the winning side with the upper hand, but if you turn the table, they totally flip.
You get comments like: "what is wrong with me", "nobody/man has ever rejected before" to all sorts of un-repeatable stuff. And they keep coming back to you time and time again to ask you why.
Best way is to say no thank you, then turn and leave before the s hit questions start, and if required leave the bar/club/venue too.
You get comments like: "what is wrong with me", "nobody/man has ever rejected before" to all sorts of un-repeatable stuff. And they keep coming back to you time and time again to ask you why.
Best way is to say no thank you, then turn and leave before the s hit questions start, and if required leave the bar/club/venue too.
DonS said:Why in the hell do you want to turn them down? Once you have told them that you are not interested in a relationship, it is THEIR choice to continue on the terms you laid out to them. These are the chicks that you turn into Fk Buddies dumb dumb. You should have a harem of 3-6 FK Buddies at any given time. These are useful for after bar close fkcing or if you need one to attend a wedding with you. If one starts to act up, drop her and add a new chick you've been keeping in the bullpen awaiting the call up to the majors.
Never reject a chick, simply place her in the position she is best suited for in your life.
i believe it's called standards.
fvk a standard..that man DONS is accurate like a guided missile..
you never kno when you'll need a girl to fill in a spot for you..always keep your options open.
once you've said no LTR..it is upto them to continue wantin you fully knowin there will be nothin more than s3x..which is what you should really be wantin anyway...
you never kno when you'll need a girl to fill in a spot for you..always keep your options open.
once you've said no LTR..it is upto them to continue wantin you fully knowin there will be nothin more than s3x..which is what you should really be wantin anyway...
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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1. Be Needy
2. Be A Pu$$ Around Her
3. Reverse Psychology
Only By Mind Screwing Her Will She Leave You Alone Now And Forever
2. Be A Pu$$ Around Her
3. Reverse Psychology
Only By Mind Screwing Her Will She Leave You Alone Now And Forever