Sometimes butthurt can work. Makes women feel guilty but you have to be sure she’s the type to show empathy. You can’t throw a tantrum but with practice you can show that she hurt you without you saying it. Playing on a woman’s guilt is a string tool.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
How do you treat a girl like this?
- Thread starter jboyd5
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I am of a different mindset when it comed to butthurt. I have never seen it work. I find indifference to be way more effective. Even with empaths.
Yeah I mean you can’t employ it every time. I wish I could explain better how I do it because it really is effective at the right time. Indifference sometimes gets me the same behavior from the girl because they think “well he doesn’t care what I did so I can keep doing it, he’s not going to call me out”
Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
She might be using you only as a "friend" to supply her attention need.
Just do what dude99 said! This is the best to do in those situations.
And probably she will chase you after that.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.