"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How do you treat a girl like this?

Robert28

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I get what you're saying. You dont need to use my words verbatim, my response is to show her you are indifferent, arent butt hurt and that she isnt a priority in your life at all, and you have other things going on. Example being you aren't orbiting her, or waiting on her, you are dating other women.
Sometimes butthurt can work. Makes women feel guilty but you have to be sure she’s the type to show empathy. You can’t throw a tantrum but with practice you can show that she hurt you without you saying it. Playing on a woman’s guilt is a string tool.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sometimes butthurt can work. Makes women feel guilty but you have to be sure she’s the type to show empathy. You can’t throw a tantrum but with practice you can show that she hurt you without you saying it. Playing on a woman’s guilt is a string tool.
I am of a different mindset when it comed to butthurt. I have never seen it work. I find indifference to be way more effective. Even with empaths.
 

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I am of a different mindset when it comed to butthurt. I have never seen it work. I find indifference to be way more effective. Even with empaths.
Yeah I mean you can’t employ it every time. I wish I could explain better how I do it because it really is effective at the right time. Indifference sometimes gets me the same behavior from the girl because they think “well he doesn’t care what I did so I can keep doing it, he’s not going to call me out”
 

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Long story short, she sits next to me in class voluntarily. Gave me tons of iois, complimented me, gave me her snap, hit me up daily. Made plans for a date and got stood up. Apologizes multiple times after our set time for the date. She snaps me a bunch of times yesterday before class asking for answers to homework, I ignored.

Since she is in my class, if she starts talking to me, should I be cold or act the same like nothing happened?
Thanks
She might be using you only as a "friend" to supply her attention need.

Just do what dude99 said! This is the best to do in those situations.

And probably she will chase you after that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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