Sometimes butthurt can work. Makes women feel guilty but you have to be sure she’s the type to show empathy. You can’t throw a tantrum but with practice you can show that she hurt you without you saying it. Playing on a woman’s guilt is a string tool.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How do you treat a girl like this?
- Thread starter jboyd5
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I am of a different mindset when it comed to butthurt. I have never seen it work. I find indifference to be way more effective. Even with empaths.
Yeah I mean you can’t employ it every time. I wish I could explain better how I do it because it really is effective at the right time. Indifference sometimes gets me the same behavior from the girl because they think “well he doesn’t care what I did so I can keep doing it, he’s not going to call me out”
Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
She might be using you only as a "friend" to supply her attention need.
Just do what dude99 said! This is the best to do in those situations.
And probably she will chase you after that.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.