"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do you tell if the woman you're looking at has a bf/married?

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This work I know from work seemed about my age. We talked for a while and everything was going great, but unfortuntately I didnt ask for her #. I overheard her on the phone mentioning she lives with her dog. But when I talked about her with my boss, he said she's married. Huh?>
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Well, depends on what type of guy your boss his. Who knows what his motives are. You're only ever going to find out by asking for her numbers. If she tells you flat out she's taken, then just smile, and say, "Well that's okay!", I'll see you around the office! (Work relationships are better left alone anyway.)
 
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Well most married women wear a wedding ring. Aside from that you pretty much have to ask them.
 
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Why even bother to ask if she's in a relationship? Just proceed with the gameplan, and if she's happily in a relationship, she will let you know asap. Exception: serial daters.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by Gonzalo
Why even bother to ask if she's in a relationship? Just proceed with the gameplan, and if she's happily in a relationship, she will let you know asap. Exception: serial daters.

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This is a great way to (unknowingly) pick up married women.
 
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