"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How do you tell if the woman you're looking at has a bf/married?

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This work I know from work seemed about my age. We talked for a while and everything was going great, but unfortuntately I didnt ask for her #. I overheard her on the phone mentioning she lives with her dog. But when I talked about her with my boss, he said she's married. Huh?>
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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nishbuk

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Well, depends on what type of guy your boss his. Who knows what his motives are. You're only ever going to find out by asking for her numbers. If she tells you flat out she's taken, then just smile, and say, "Well that's okay!", I'll see you around the office! (Work relationships are better left alone anyway.)
 
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Well most married women wear a wedding ring. Aside from that you pretty much have to ask them.
 
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Why even bother to ask if she's in a relationship? Just proceed with the gameplan, and if she's happily in a relationship, she will let you know asap. Exception: serial daters.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Gonzalo
Why even bother to ask if she's in a relationship? Just proceed with the gameplan, and if she's happily in a relationship, she will let you know asap. Exception: serial daters.

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This is a great way to (unknowingly) pick up married women.
 
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