"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How do you tell if the woman you're looking at has a bf/married?

hycodan

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This work I know from work seemed about my age. We talked for a while and everything was going great, but unfortuntately I didnt ask for her #. I overheard her on the phone mentioning she lives with her dog. But when I talked about her with my boss, he said she's married. Huh?>
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nishbuk

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Well, depends on what type of guy your boss his. Who knows what his motives are. You're only ever going to find out by asking for her numbers. If she tells you flat out she's taken, then just smile, and say, "Well that's okay!", I'll see you around the office! (Work relationships are better left alone anyway.)
 

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Well most married women wear a wedding ring. Aside from that you pretty much have to ask them.
 

Gonzalo

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Why even bother to ask if she's in a relationship? Just proceed with the gameplan, and if she's happily in a relationship, she will let you know asap. Exception: serial daters.

G
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Gonzalo
Why even bother to ask if she's in a relationship? Just proceed with the gameplan, and if she's happily in a relationship, she will let you know asap. Exception: serial daters.

G
This is a great way to (unknowingly) pick up married women.
 
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