"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How do you tell if the woman you're looking at has a bf/married?

hycodan

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This work I know from work seemed about my age. We talked for a while and everything was going great, but unfortuntately I didnt ask for her #. I overheard her on the phone mentioning she lives with her dog. But when I talked about her with my boss, he said she's married. Huh?>
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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nishbuk

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Well, depends on what type of guy your boss his. Who knows what his motives are. You're only ever going to find out by asking for her numbers. If she tells you flat out she's taken, then just smile, and say, "Well that's okay!", I'll see you around the office! (Work relationships are better left alone anyway.)
 

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Well most married women wear a wedding ring. Aside from that you pretty much have to ask them.
 

Gonzalo

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Why even bother to ask if she's in a relationship? Just proceed with the gameplan, and if she's happily in a relationship, she will let you know asap. Exception: serial daters.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Gonzalo
Why even bother to ask if she's in a relationship? Just proceed with the gameplan, and if she's happily in a relationship, she will let you know asap. Exception: serial daters.

G
This is a great way to (unknowingly) pick up married women.
 
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