Title says it all. I love my girlfriend but good Lord, sometimes I just really want my space. She totally felt that not seeing each other every day was a good thing when we first started our relationship. 8 months in and now it's like she tried to find a way to see me or at least chat everyday. It's not that she doesn't trust me either. I've tried the "oh I have blah blah blah to do" but she still tries to talk or whatever later on that day. I want my damn space! How do you tell her that she's being clingy without hurting her feelings. Yes, without hurting her feelings. You know as much as I do that she'll find a way to be offended.
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How do you tell a girl she's being clingy?
- Thread starter Jon55
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
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Energizer
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Just be honest with her.
Tell her that she is being clingy and that you need your space.
Everyone needs space from time to time, you're no different.
Tell her that she is being clingy and that you need your space.
Everyone needs space from time to time, you're no different.
Yes you just have to be honest with her. Tell her its not about the amount of time you spend together, but the quality of time you spend together. Say something like, when i am with you, i wantto be 100% with you, and to do that i need time away to get everything else sorted.... so you have my undivided attention
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Energizer
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That's just gay. Totally Gay.Cinamon said:Yes you just have to be honest with her. Tell her its not about the amount of time you spend together, but the quality of time you spend together. Say something like, when i am with you, i wantto be 100% with you, and to do that i need time away to get everything else sorted.... so you have my undivided attention
scrouds
Master Don Juan
Break dates, don't answer calls, don't answer texts, don't respond online. You know, be an ashole.
When she confronts you, tell her to don't be so clingly, otherwise the door is over there, and your boots were made for kicking.
When she confronts you, tell her to don't be so clingly, otherwise the door is over there, and your boots were made for kicking.
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She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
scrouds said:
Seriously? Is this what SoSuave's quality of posts has dropped to? Besides, that is the worst advice for this situation because then she'll just become more clingy, or (even worse) get frustrated and leave (in the end).
Thank you Energizer, that was the closest thing to advice so far.