Title says it all. I love my girlfriend but good Lord, sometimes I just really want my space. She totally felt that not seeing each other every day was a good thing when we first started our relationship. 8 months in and now it's like she tried to find a way to see me or at least chat everyday. It's not that she doesn't trust me either. I've tried the "oh I have blah blah blah to do" but she still tries to talk or whatever later on that day. I want my damn space! How do you tell her that she's being clingy without hurting her feelings. Yes, without hurting her feelings. You know as much as I do that she'll find a way to be offended.
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How do you tell a girl she's being clingy?
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Energizer
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Just be honest with her.
Tell her that she is being clingy and that you need your space.
Everyone needs space from time to time, you're no different.
Tell her that she is being clingy and that you need your space.
Everyone needs space from time to time, you're no different.
Yes you just have to be honest with her. Tell her its not about the amount of time you spend together, but the quality of time you spend together. Say something like, when i am with you, i wantto be 100% with you, and to do that i need time away to get everything else sorted.... so you have my undivided attention
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Energizer
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That's just gay. Totally Gay.Cinamon said:Yes you just have to be honest with her. Tell her its not about the amount of time you spend together, but the quality of time you spend together. Say something like, when i am with you, i wantto be 100% with you, and to do that i need time away to get everything else sorted.... so you have my undivided attention
scrouds
Master Don Juan
Break dates, don't answer calls, don't answer texts, don't respond online. You know, be an ashole.
When she confronts you, tell her to don't be so clingly, otherwise the door is over there, and your boots were made for kicking.
When she confronts you, tell her to don't be so clingly, otherwise the door is over there, and your boots were made for kicking.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
scrouds said:
Seriously? Is this what SoSuave's quality of posts has dropped to? Besides, that is the worst advice for this situation because then she'll just become more clingy, or (even worse) get frustrated and leave (in the end).
Thank you Energizer, that was the closest thing to advice so far.