"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How do you screen for girls who love sex?

Red Legg

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Ask them if they want daddy to molest them tonight ....this sh!t ain't hard people ask them if they want to be spanked...most women you have to draw the freak out.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is true. crazy ex of mine once described her libido and state of constant arousal as "her gift to the world". That made me feel queasy at the time and in retrospect not so much a gift as a curse or biblical style plague. (shudder)
Well they always cheat on someone. It makes the rest of the world look better in comparison. Its bullshyt. Maybe if these hoez put time and effort in their own relationship it wouldn't be "boring"
 

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Should be pretty easy to tell...if itd OLD read profiles carefully, look for multiple tattoos/piercings, see what they are "looking for".
 

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Lesbians still like sex.. with women lol.

I didn’t think I needed to say it but ok all women besides asexual women.
All lesbians dont like sex and many wont want to be penetrated. What i was getting at is we can never say "all women".
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I hear you, but let's assume he is a Chad Pitt, is she doing those things coz she's actually enjoying them or coz she's just so thrilled psychologically she's getting it from such a prime specimen she's just LETTING him so as to not risk pushing him away?
Both.

I've heard that if you read fifty shades of gray the girl doesn't really enjoy most of the kinky **** and only goes along with it out of infatuation with the guy

There's also stories where a girl is clearly a freak who loves sex for chad, but a frigid prude that gives it up reluctantly once a week for a beta provider

So both of those things are at play.
 

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Didn’t read replies but I’m sure somebody had to have said this...

All women love sex. There is no screening for if a girl likes sex.

Some may be more into different or kinky things but ALL women love sex in some capacity
I dunno if I'd agree with that.

I've definitely known a lot of girls that weren't very sexual, girls who don't masturbate much or don't know anything about porn. girls who could have sex in between relationships easily if they wanted to but choose to go on long dry spells, girls that make everyone jump through a million hoops to fvck, etc.

I know a bunch of girls who really want to be my girlfriend, that manage to be less sexual than a married chick I used to talk to, none of them can even imagine why i wouldn't want a girlfriend less horny than a girl who's married and getting ****ed daily lmao.

that would be incorrect. There are lesbians and asexual.
I think bringing up lesbians or asexuals doesn't make sense here since those are implicity excluded from discussion when men are talking about sex lol
 

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I dunno if I'd agree with that.

I've definitely known a lot of girls that weren't very sexual, girls who don't masturbate much or don't know anything about porn. girls who could have sex in between relationships easily if they wanted to but choose to go on long dry spells, girls that make everyone jump through a million hoops to fvck, etc.

I know a bunch of girls who really want to be my girlfriend, that manage to be less sexual than a married chick I used to talk to, none of them can even imagine why i wouldn't want a girlfriend less horny than a girl who's married and getting ****ed daily lmao.



I think bringing up lesbians or asexuals doesn't make sense here since those are implicity excluded from discussion when men are talking about sex lol
My discussion was revelent to the "all woman". Some women hate passion. And they are straight. Sex to procreate. Lucky that my women have liked me and made great efforts.
 
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