"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How do you respond to "Oh baby you're so huge"

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oakraiderz2 said:
Agreed.

The majority of dbags who responded wouldnt say sh*t. They would just type some C+F line on their comp.

Says the dbag who's actually taking this thread seriously.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TyTe`EyEz said:
Says the dbag who's actually taking this thread seriously.
Yea, cause im the only one. Go play psp or something.
 

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"That's what my mother always told me."

"Unfortunately, so are you."

"You only want me for my horse-sized c0ck, don't you? What about my personality, sense of humor, wit, and intelligence?"

"You should see my best friend Tim's."

"Can you lie to me and tell me it's even smaller than your ****oris? I get turned on when I'm told that my penis is smaller than the ****oris."

"You should see how big my shoe is."
 

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SamePendo said:
Don't know and don't care. I'll never hear those words, so why bother?
Ha ha, me either.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I guess I'm at least average, but I got a similar line a couple of months ago for the first time. And she has said it several times since.

I'm guessing in this case it's nothing more than an ego booster. She also used it in the context of "I'm not opposed to anal sex, but you are just too big" Convenient way to say "I want to sound like I am adventurous and willing to give up the Hershey Highway, but I don't enjoy it all that much so I'm going to tell you that you are too big for me".

It can also have to do with relativity. My ex is a 5ft tall 100lb Filipina who had only been with one other guy before me, who was also asian. I'm sure compared to what she had seen before me, I WAS big.
 

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Jaxon said:
How do you respond to a chick who tells you "you're so huge" the first time she feels your hog?

Make sure you leave her a big tip on the nightstand on your way out to pay for the room.
 

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Agh. that happens to me too much. Especially because I put more energy into getting big. I see people I didn't see in 1-2 years. They see me and they are like(the girls obvisoely), WOW you got so buff. wow.(they feel my arms and chest, hella feelin me up lol). And all the guys play along. And all of a sudden I realize I am being beta because all the guys are like dude, flex for her flex for her. ANd the chick is sayin the same ****. I usually play it cool and say...yes...I hit the gym and ****. But I end up flexing...How do you avoid that They keep saying some **** and I end up jumpin in their hoops. I ended up just trien to make it seem like its no big deal when I flexed. Agh. hella annoying+im kinda drunk riht now.
 

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Jaxon said:
How do you respond to a chick who tells you "you're so huge" the first time she feels your hog?

"Thank you. And so are you."




Cheers!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ssj4halo said:
Agh. that happens to me too much. Especially because I put more energy into getting big. I see people I didn't see in 1-2 years. They see me and they are like(the girls obvisoely), WOW you got so buff. wow.(they feel my arms and chest, hella feelin me up lol). And all the guys play along. And all of a sudden I realize I am being beta because all the guys are like dude, flex for her flex for her. ANd the chick is sayin the same ****. I usually play it cool and say...yes...I hit the gym and ****. But I end up flexing...How do you avoid that They keep saying some **** and I end up jumpin in their hoops. I ended up just trien to make it seem like its no big deal when I flexed. Agh. hella annoying+im kinda drunk riht now.
tell the girls they can rub your chest, if you can rub theirs.

be ready to drive them to a motel.
 

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Girls are just trying to stroke a man's ego. Same thing when your'e doing her and stop, but she still keeps screaming. Lets u know she's just doing it for show.
 

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STR8UP said:
I guess I'm at least average, but I got a similar line a couple of months ago for the first time. And she has said it several times since.

I'm guessing in this case it's nothing more than an ego booster. She also used it in the context of "I'm not opposed to anal sex, but you are just too big" Convenient way to say "I want to sound like I am adventurous and willing to give up the Hershey Highway, but I don't enjoy it all that much so I'm going to tell you that you are too big for me".

It can also have to do with relativity. My ex is a 5ft tall 100lb Filipina who had only been with one other guy before me, who was also asian. I'm sure compared to what she had seen before me, I WAS big.
Hey man watch the stereotype...we'll you may be right because there is always SOME truth to a stereotype but speaking for myself im a little above the American average size so im not that offended....haha.

Seriously...was she a freak? I heard Filipina girls are wild in bed and give great oral. Ive never been with a 5' 100lbs Filipino girl before. Thats pretty petite...i always have this thing where i think a smaller girl like that would have a harder time "handling" a bigger person....but maybe im wrong.

Two of my favorite petite Asian porn stars Kobe Tai and Kaylani Lei sure don't have that problem, they could really take a d!ck like a champ!

*I'll bet everyone goes and googles "Kobe Tai" and "Kaylani Lei" now....lol
 
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