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oakraiderz2 said:Agreed.
The majority of dbags who responded wouldnt say sh*t. They would just type some C+F line on their comp.
Says the dbag who's actually taking this thread seriously.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
oakraiderz2 said:Agreed.
The majority of dbags who responded wouldnt say sh*t. They would just type some C+F line on their comp.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yea, cause im the only one. Go play psp or something.TyTe`EyEz said:Says the dbag who's actually taking this thread seriously.
Ha ha, me either.SamePendo said:Don't know and don't care. I'll never hear those words, so why bother?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Jaxon said:How do you respond to a chick who tells you "you're so huge" the first time she feels your hog?
Jaxon said:How do you respond to a chick who tells you "you're so huge" the first time she feels your hog?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
tell the girls they can rub your chest, if you can rub theirs.ssj4halo said:Agh. that happens to me too much. Especially because I put more energy into getting big. I see people I didn't see in 1-2 years. They see me and they are like(the girls obvisoely), WOW you got so buff. wow.(they feel my arms and chest, hella feelin me up lol). And all the guys play along. And all of a sudden I realize I am being beta because all the guys are like dude, flex for her flex for her. ANd the chick is sayin the same ****. I usually play it cool and say...yes...I hit the gym and ****. But I end up flexing...How do you avoid that They keep saying some **** and I end up jumpin in their hoops. I ended up just trien to make it seem like its no big deal when I flexed. Agh. hella annoying+im kinda drunk riht now.
Hey man watch the stereotype...we'll you may be right because there is always SOME truth to a stereotype but speaking for myself im a little above the American average size so im not that offended....haha.STR8UP said:I guess I'm at least average, but I got a similar line a couple of months ago for the first time. And she has said it several times since.
I'm guessing in this case it's nothing more than an ego booster. She also used it in the context of "I'm not opposed to anal sex, but you are just too big" Convenient way to say "I want to sound like I am adventurous and willing to give up the Hershey Highway, but I don't enjoy it all that much so I'm going to tell you that you are too big for me".
It can also have to do with relativity. My ex is a 5ft tall 100lb Filipina who had only been with one other guy before me, who was also asian. I'm sure compared to what she had seen before me, I WAS big.