Dhoulmagus
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All the girls ive banged were within 10 minutes of meeting them. I want a consistent bang.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How do you quit getting one night stands
- Thread starter Dhoulmagus
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
Oooh... I like riddles!
Is the answer:
Stop paying hookers for sex?
Is the answer:
Stop paying hookers for sex?
Dhoulmagus
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I tried contacting one and didnt get a response. I just assume they only want a ons.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
Get better in bed and you won't have this problem.Dhoulmagus said:
(as much)
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
No.Danny
Master Don Juan
What's wrong with ons? You're getting a taste of everything out there 
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
Because out of the guys that I know who are naturally good, they only get ONS maybe 3 times a month. That's pretty good for getting new women but if you add that up, they'd only be having sex 36 times a year, which is the grand scheme of things can't really be called regular sex. Personally I've found it best to have a regular thing going with someone and have the ONS as an option on the side rather than a primary aim. At the end of the day, during my last year at university I was getting on average just over one ONS a month on top of the plates I was screwing. If I was purely relying on ONS I would have been having sex once a month, which for me is just not okay.No.Danny said:What's wrong with ons? You're getting a taste of everything out there
In response to the OP, f*ck her well but also build more comfort and rapport. I've found being explicit about being f*ckbuddies after the first time has never gone down badly if you've both had a good time.
