Dhoulmagus
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All the girls ive banged were within 10 minutes of meeting them. I want a consistent bang.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How do you quit getting one night stands
- Thread starter Dhoulmagus
- Start date
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
Oooh... I like riddles!
Is the answer:
Stop paying hookers for sex?
Is the answer:
Stop paying hookers for sex?
Dhoulmagus
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I tried contacting one and didnt get a response. I just assume they only want a ons.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
Get better in bed and you won't have this problem.Dhoulmagus said:
(as much)
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
No.Danny
Master Don Juan
What's wrong with ons? You're getting a taste of everything out there 
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
Because out of the guys that I know who are naturally good, they only get ONS maybe 3 times a month. That's pretty good for getting new women but if you add that up, they'd only be having sex 36 times a year, which is the grand scheme of things can't really be called regular sex. Personally I've found it best to have a regular thing going with someone and have the ONS as an option on the side rather than a primary aim. At the end of the day, during my last year at university I was getting on average just over one ONS a month on top of the plates I was screwing. If I was purely relying on ONS I would have been having sex once a month, which for me is just not okay.No.Danny said:What's wrong with ons? You're getting a taste of everything out there
In response to the OP, f*ck her well but also build more comfort and rapport. I've found being explicit about being f*ckbuddies after the first time has never gone down badly if you've both had a good time.
