"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How do you quit getting one night stands

Dhoulmagus

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All the girls ive banged were within 10 minutes of meeting them. I want a consistent bang.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Oooh... I like riddles!

Is the answer:

Stop paying hookers for sex?
 

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troll much?
 

Dhoulmagus

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I tried contacting one and didnt get a response. I just assume they only want a ons.
 

Vulpine

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Dhoulmagus said:
I tried contacting one and didnt get a response. I just assume they only want a ons.
Get better in bed and you won't have this problem.












(as much)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What's wrong with ons? You're getting a taste of everything out there ;)
 

Mr Wright

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No.Danny said:
What's wrong with ons? You're getting a taste of everything out there ;)
Because out of the guys that I know who are naturally good, they only get ONS maybe 3 times a month. That's pretty good for getting new women but if you add that up, they'd only be having sex 36 times a year, which is the grand scheme of things can't really be called regular sex. Personally I've found it best to have a regular thing going with someone and have the ONS as an option on the side rather than a primary aim. At the end of the day, during my last year at university I was getting on average just over one ONS a month on top of the plates I was screwing. If I was purely relying on ONS I would have been having sex once a month, which for me is just not okay.

In response to the OP, f*ck her well but also build more comfort and rapport. I've found being explicit about being f*ckbuddies after the first time has never gone down badly if you've both had a good time.
 

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Either all they wanted was a one night stand, or your doing something to drive them away... :crazy:
 

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Try finding places to pick up chicks other than where you are picking them up OP?
 
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