Dhoulmagus
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All the girls ive banged were within 10 minutes of meeting them. I want a consistent bang.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Get better in bed and you won't have this problem.Dhoulmagus said:I tried contacting one and didnt get a response. I just assume they only want a ons.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Because out of the guys that I know who are naturally good, they only get ONS maybe 3 times a month. That's pretty good for getting new women but if you add that up, they'd only be having sex 36 times a year, which is the grand scheme of things can't really be called regular sex. Personally I've found it best to have a regular thing going with someone and have the ONS as an option on the side rather than a primary aim. At the end of the day, during my last year at university I was getting on average just over one ONS a month on top of the plates I was screwing. If I was purely relying on ONS I would have been having sex once a month, which for me is just not okay.No.Danny said:What's wrong with ons? You're getting a taste of everything out there![]()