"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How do you make your sig automatic?

Soma

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Sup all,

Every board I've been to it allows you to enter your signature in your profile and every time you make a post after that, the sig is automatically included in the message.

On this site...I have to hit the check box that says "include your signature" on every single post I make. it's annoying. For some reason it just started annoying me enough to make a post about it and find out if there's a way to automate it.

In the FAQ it says:

"If you have specified a signature, then the board will automatically append your signature to any messages you post. You can disable signatures on a per-post basis by un-ticking the 'Show Signature' checkbox when you compose your message."

But I've found it to be the opposite. Instead of checking the box to DISABLE the signature, I have to check the box to ENABLE the signature on each post.

Bleh.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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CapiCrimini

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i've talked to the mods. They said the option isn't allowed on this bored... There are a lot of things like avatars that would make this place nicer, but we will most likely never see.
 

Vincent

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If everyone used sigs it would be like eternals.

LOL more than 10 lines LOL

Mines Kickin' Rad
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Eternal

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Originally posted by Vincent
If everyone used sigs it would be like eternals.

LOL more than 10 lines LOL

Mines Kickin' Rad
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Don't be jealous because mine rocks.
 

Vincent

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Damn you caught my bluff :rolleyes:
 
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