"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How do you make your sig automatic?

Soma

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Sup all,

Every board I've been to it allows you to enter your signature in your profile and every time you make a post after that, the sig is automatically included in the message.

On this site...I have to hit the check box that says "include your signature" on every single post I make. it's annoying. For some reason it just started annoying me enough to make a post about it and find out if there's a way to automate it.

In the FAQ it says:

"If you have specified a signature, then the board will automatically append your signature to any messages you post. You can disable signatures on a per-post basis by un-ticking the 'Show Signature' checkbox when you compose your message."

But I've found it to be the opposite. Instead of checking the box to DISABLE the signature, I have to check the box to ENABLE the signature on each post.

Bleh.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CapiCrimini

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i've talked to the mods. They said the option isn't allowed on this bored... There are a lot of things like avatars that would make this place nicer, but we will most likely never see.
 

Vincent

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If everyone used sigs it would be like eternals.

LOL more than 10 lines LOL

Mines Kickin' Rad
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Eternal

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Originally posted by Vincent
If everyone used sigs it would be like eternals.

LOL more than 10 lines LOL

Mines Kickin' Rad
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Don't be jealous because mine rocks.
 

Vincent

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Damn you caught my bluff :rolleyes:
 
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